I’ve been in a pickle for the past week as I am making a few decisions that will change my life as I know it now. I have never been good at decision-making. I am the girl who is at the store caught between, should I get this one or that one? But making life-decisions isn’t just about choosing with the option to return later.
So, I got to thinking, what is a decision? A decision is a choice, but what is most important is the energy with which we make a decision. Our energy is our fuel. The energy we bring to anything will determine our experience, and our experience will conclude the meaning we give.
When we make an intuitively guided decision we are asking our inner guidance for support. Our inner guidance primarily works through feelings. How we feel about something is a great way to understand if it the ‘right’ step or not. Ask yourself, how does making this decision feel? Write it out. Forgot about the future. The future isn’t here and what we do in the now creates the future. So direct your presence into the now and feel the decision in your body. You’ll know if you are making a decision out of fear or love because:
Fear will tell you to run from something. Love will say, “Run towards it”.
In this video I share with you three ways to make an intuitively guided decision.
Questions to ask yourself:
1. What is the sponsoring thought behind my decision? Love or Fear?
2. Does my decision feel like forward movement or backward movement? Will it help me grow or regress me back into safety?
3. Why am I doing what I am doing? Is it an open-door or an escape-door?
Remember, we can’t predict the future. We can only decide what feels right, feels like the next step and feels aligned to love, right now. Tell me your thoughts. Are there any techniques you use to make your decisions?